How-to

Reminders and deadlines: dates that help without hounding

A date in Fanad is information, not a tripwire: it lifts a task's ranking as the day approaches, pings you at most once, and then gets out of the way.

by — a deadline

There are only three ways to put time on a task, and you say all of them in plain words at the moment of capture. End a task with by <when> and it gets a due date:

renew the passport by friday

✓ Filed: “renew the passport” · Admin · medium · ⏳ due friday

What a deadline does: it gently lifts the task in rankings and suggestions as friday approaches — whatdo gets more likely to offer it. What it doesn't do: ping you, turn red, or scold. Once the date passes, it quietly retires rather than haunting the list as “overdue.”

on — a deadline plus one ping

on <when> sets the due date and a one-time reminder at that exact moment:

call mom on sunday 6pm

✓ Filed: “call mom” · Social · trivial · 🔔 sunday 6pm

Sunday at 6, you get one message. That's the whole contract. Use on for things with a real appointment-shaped moment; use by for things that just need to happen before one.

remind me — a ping without ceremony

The most natural version needs no syntax at all:

remind me to take the bins out at 8pm

✓ Filed: “take the bins out” · Home · trivial · 🔔 8pm …then, at 8:00 pm: 🔔 Reminder: “take the bins out” — it’s time.

It pings once and leaves the task on your list until you done it. There is no snooze, no re-ping, no escalation — Fanad's position is that a reminder is a courtesy, and a second reminder is a nag.

Today: the short fence

For the “this must not survive the day” category:

  • x call the pharmacy — the shortcut files a task due by the end of today
  • tasks today — just what's due today
  • whatdo today — the one-thing suggestion, scoped to today's dues

A nice detail: the day ends at 2:00 am, not midnight. Finishing something at 12:30 still counts as tonight, because that's how evenings actually work.

/cal — hand the date to your real calendar

Any dated task shows a 📅 link. cal 3 hands you an .ics file that drops the task onto your own calendar — Google, Apple, Outlook, whatever you already live in:

/cal 3

📅 Add “renew the passport” to your calendar (hands you an .ics file to open — recur it there if you like)

This is also the official answer for anything recurring: Fanad will never re-add a task on a schedule, but your calendar is built for repeats — set it to recur there, on your terms. (More on that philosophy in routines without recurrence.)

/wake — the standing exception

One kind of scheduled ping exists, because it's an invitation rather than a demand: wake 8:30 sets a daily check-in where Fanad offers a single suggestion each morning. wakelist shows your check-ins; wake off 1 removes one. You can ignore it forever without consequence — it never accumulates.

Which one, when

You're thinkingSay
“…sometime before friday”…by friday
“…at that specific moment”…on sunday 6pm
“just ping me tonight”remind me to … at 8pm
“today, no matter what”x …
“every first of the month”cal N → recur it in your calendar
“nudge me each morning”wake 8:30
At most one ping, ever

The through-line: every date in Fanad results in at most one ping. If you're used to apps that badger, the silence feels strange for about a week — and then it's the reason you still trust the list.